How I think about career
I think it’s ridiculous to expect anyone 21 or younger to know what they want to do for their career.
This is how I answered that question at the family barbecues over the years:
- 3yo: Batman
- 6yo: Dentist
- 7yo - 12yo: Tennis pro
- 12yo - 17yo: Cricket pro
- 18yo: Neurosurgeon → Astrophysicist
- 19yo: Engineer → investor → ghostwriter
- 20yo: No clue
- 21yo (now): Build technology
On my learning gap year, I spent a lot of time working closely with Alex Brogan—a career maximising geek and who’s shaped much of my thinking on this topic.
Some of my thoughts:
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Explore, then exploit
The limiting factor is usually a lack of data. Treat it like a science experiment: list possible hypotheses, then test them quickly with minimal commitment. Your goal? Reduce that list of options.
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Question mimetic desire
We inherit the ambitions of those around us, from family, friends, and online gurus. Ask yourself:
“If I weren’t afraid of others’ opinions, what would I choose?”
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Be willing to work for free
Without experience, this is an easy way to get your foot in the door.
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Ignore sunk costs
Past time, effort, and money shouldn’t dictate your future. If you got hit by a bus tomorrow, would your previous choices matter? Probably not, so I’d change my mind without much thought.
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Optimise for working with specific people
This is how I’ve approached every job experience I’ve had. Find someone you want to learn from and find a way to work for them.
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Be willing to take on risk
At 18-21, you have the least commitments you ever will. If things fail, there’s little downside compared to later in life.
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Try and find something that feels like play
You’ll spend at least a third of your life working. You may as well enjoy it.
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Be solid on the vision, flexible on the details
Once you have some experience and reduced your list of options, it’s helpful to create a general direction you want to go. But don’t limit randomness and serendipity on how to get there.
A learning gap year can be helpful to figure out the above, and don’t forget to send lots of cold DM’s and emails.